How to stay safe from digital fraud and online dating scams

Hey folks, wishing and hoping that you are all safe and healthy. So, there is this female activist I follow on Instagram who exposes the dark truths behind marriage and Indian dating. I have lost more than 1 lacs by getting entangled in these scams. My salary is sufficient enough to feed myself but these scams can take a toll on our mental health. Being lazy and unproductive is fine but when you lose your money, you feel cheated. I never had the patience to commit to anything and I have always wondered but I really do wish that you guys do not have to go through such things. 

So, the thing is that everything is true but then, everything isn't true. I joined Gigolo. This is an online agency that issues duplicate or maybe even real identity cards(who knows) to young males who are interested in working as playboys. Then, others look at other methods that are cheap yet effective. This is sensitive information but this needs to be out so that people can save their money. I was looking to make some quick money and so I thought, let's try this( hell, I am not even married yet, and I am just 24). Anyway, jokes apart, these people will do everything right but when the meeting is about to be scheduled, these people (who you never know in reality) will ask for money in the name of hotel booking and service charges. 

I was called to Nehru Place Metro Station, Delhi. I reached there on my bike and then two girls( or maybe women) approached me after like( 1 hour) and demanded extra payment. The person I was talking to had already taken 10k but these girls said that I needed to pay hotel charges and madam security fees that would get refunded, I kept questioning who would refund this, but these chicks didn't provide any valid/logical explanation. Gosh, I was left screaming and hanging. I visited multiple police stations and was finally referred to Badarpur Police Station. I couldn't do anything. I got scammed(brutally). When I thought someone finally is listening to me, the police official told, in this amount, you could have fucked a Russian. Would you believe this? Corruption runs deep in this democratic country. These people are involved in everything.

I decided to directly contact these women and the person who showed me this path. My colleagues at the office went haywire and everyone in the office( Tech Mahindra) started to listen to stories about me. Gosh, that wasn't what was happening initially more than enough. No matter what I do, I always get caught in these stupid and useless things. So, there's that. And eventually, it's lust and greed that drives mankind crazy. To satisfy their lust, people visit brothels( Swami Dayanand Marg and Lajpat Nagar in Delhi are very famous in Delhi for this). Some become a playboy. 

Now, you should be careful when dealing with such things. Since this is highly sensitive information, I wouldn't let it stay on my website for more than 24 hours. Pass on this crucial information to your fellow family members and friends because this could save them money. See, money is important. You can get any commodity in today's day and age with money. Save it, save your future. Thank your big buddy later!

Here's wishing you all a very happy and safe life! Enjoy, read, learn, explore and drop comments below if something similar happened to you as well. And sincere advise, do not pursue such activities, and stay safe. Your parents didn't raise a looser, they raised a champion who is born to rule the world.